People label us as unsuccessful when we choose careers in fields they have yet to understand.
They urge us to expand our boundaries, yet when we step beyond them, we’re called reckless.
If we speak less, they find us intriguing and chase after us. But the moment we open up, they advise us to maintain boundaries.
If we focus on knowledge, we’re branded as "nerd aunties."
If we care about our looks, we’re accused of living a shallow, meaningless life.
When we don’t respond, we’re seen as arrogant and too busy for others.
But when we make time for them, we’re called unproductive.
If we follow their rules, we’re dismissed as boring.
If we live by our own, we’re tagged as crazy.
It feels like the world is inherently dogla—two-faced. Being accepted while staying true to yourself seems almost impossible. Even though the world has its beauty, it’s also pretty crooked.